Wednesday, November 25, 2009

good morning!

This morning I woke up to see cute little Razu all cuddled up on the floor pillows that I bought:

But the noise of the camera woke him up - so then I got to listen to the meows of a hungry cat for a bit.

On my way to feed him I noticed that the views out of my kitchen window/skylight (it's shaped like a skylight, but it's only about 6 feet up and it opens - so I don't really know what it is ... ah the joys of living in the top apartment) were really amazing this morning. The light was very orange and there were zero grey clouds and no fog:


This is a better view of the church behind me. It was taken from my bathroom window/skylight:


I love living in France and I love my apartment oh, so much!

p.s. real pictures of the apartment coming as soon as I clean ...

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Being a scab and Thanksgiving lessons

So today is a national strike for teachers (except no one told me, so I came to work all happy as usual). As I was walking toward the front door of my school, one of my students stops me and says, "Madame? La Grève?" Translation, "Madame? The strike?" My response: "comment, uh, what?" So apparently there is a stike, but it's optional. Some teachers are here, but most aren't - and all the kids have to come to class. So it's not really very exciting - but I do kinda feel like a scab. Technically I could strike if I wanted to, but I really have no idea what it's about and I really don't think that I should be getting involved in national politics (god knows, my own country's politics are exciting enough). So the thanksgiving lesson went on...

My first class - who are chatterboxes - didn't seem very interested ... but they got to hear me talk about thanksgiving anyways. I explained the holiday and then asked them what kinds of foods they would bring if there was a French Thanksgiving (oh yes, I am secretly doing research). The answer? Chocolate cake and foie gras. Yeah... So then I asked them to think of something they were thankful for. I explained how at thanksgiving people usually say something nice - I gave the example of "this year, I'm thankful for all the nice French people I've met and my great students." What did I get in return? "I'm thankful for my friends," times 14. Cool. So then I asked them what they usually do for a holiday meal (I try to avoid referencing religion in any way) and I got into a nice conversation with two students about how they think France is too materialistic and how holidays should be about family etc etc. It was such a thoughtful sentiment and really nice to hear about what they really think. I let the group go a few minutes early - it's a strike and Thanksgiving, really why keep them? - and then started prepping for my afternoon groups.

The groups that I have on Tuesday afternoons are some of my favorite - they can be a bit wild, but they interact, they like to have fun, and they really make an effort to speak -- you can't ask for more! I downloaded a nice worksheet where they change the verbs in a thanksgiving story from present to past tense and a nice short story of thanksgiving with a recipe for pumpkin pie at the bottom - thanks to former Assistant Jennie for both! Then I went and bought a bag of candy - it's thanksgiving! The lesson went really well - we talked about thanksgiving, did the work sheet and I gave out candy for each right answer. Then we talked about a French Thanksgiving - they would've had foie gras, roast beef, oysters, escargots, baguettes, cake and lots of wine (I'm going to that Thanksgiving!) and what they were thankful for - friends, faily, pets, health. And one students said he was thankful for me because I made English class really fun and that everyone likes me (brown nosing? totally. did I eat it up completely? totally.) After that we played Thanksgiving themed hangman (a good chance for them to practice the words they just learned) and I let them leave early. All in all, an amazing lesson!

I love Thanksgiving!

So, Happy Thanksgiving to everyone at home! I hope the Turkey is crispy and moist, the potatoes are lump free and that the stuffing is beautiful (which it always is) and that the pumpkin pie is perfection! I'm celebrating the occasion with a meal out and a big Thanksgiving day celebration Sunday with all the assistants and friends - I'm bringing Rice Balls.

Monday, November 23, 2009

Real posts are coming - I promise

Ok, I promise that a real post will happen soon. As soon as these grad school applications are out the door and I can breathe again I will update on my life in France.

Friday, November 13, 2009

It's Friday!

And I have a nice new picture on my blog. As much as I loved the old picture - and I did - this picture is actually of Orléans! It's a view of the Cathedral from across the river - which is a view I get to see everyday when I take the bus home from school!

Speaking of school ...It always feels like a major accomplishment when I finish a week of teaching and still have all my limbs and my sanity. I may be tired as hell, and super ready for the weekend - but it feels so good to know that I managed to teach 12 classes - all at different levels with different lessons without anything tragic happening. This weekend I'm planning on camping out in front of my computer and writing my essays for graduate school - we'll see if this actually happens. I've noticed a phenomenon lately - every day I make a list (sometimes written, usually in my head) of things that I want to accomplish during the day. The list usually has 4-7 items. I usually accomplish 1. I'm not sure if it's because things take so long to do here in France, or if this is just the plight of the 'real world'. For example, yesterday I wanted to:
switch the electricity bill into my name
get internet set up
officially change my address with the post office
go to Casa and buy some things for my apartment
send e-mails to the people I want to write my letters of recommendation
So my day looked like this: teach from 8:15 to 1:15 with a 2 hour break in the middle (usually it's only 1 hour, but one of my classes was cancelled), go home and eat lunch, run errands, meet a friend for coffee at 4, meet another friend at 6:30 for shopping and then make diner and go to bed. Who wants to guess how many things I actually got done off my originial list? If you guessed 2 then you're 'right on the money'. Yesterday I sent e-mails and bought things for my apartment.
Today my list looks like this:
print more RIBs from my bank and order checks
change my address with the post office
plan a thanksgiving lesson for next week
switch the electricity bill into my name
go to Conforama (again) and buy the metal frame for my bed
get internet set up
get a new cell phone plan

How many will I actually get done? Probably 3 - if I stop procrastinating and get moving...

Also, I just re-read this post and couldn't believe how teacher-y I sound. I actually used the phrase, for example. And wrote things in a list and put coloquial phrases in quote marks to differentiate. I'm surprised I didn't add in a 'do you understand?' My goodness, what is happening to me?

Thursday, November 12, 2009

November 11 - Another day off ... so an update!

Beginning on Saturday I’ve had an absolutely wonderful week. Last Tuesday I moved into my beautiful new apartment - and after an hour of signing papers and having a million things explained to me (most of which I understood-ish) I was handed the keys. My amazing friends helped me move all my stuff (it only took 3 people 1 bus trip). Razu survived the bus ride - he didn’t even get that upset. I think he’s adapting just fine to traveling - I also realized that this was our 5th move in 11 months. I think we’re getting quite good at - if I do say so myself. Unfortunately, we weren’t able to move any of the big stuff - so I slept on the floor for the night. Wednesday my responsable helped me move the big stuff and I was all settled in. I cooked a little thank you dinner of Fajitas for my amazing friends - I couldn’t have done it without them. We all enjoyed it immensely (many thanks to Seamus for bringing the cooking sauce from Ireland and to Troy and Mom and Dad for the mexican seasonings) the dinner was almost as good as home. Thursday was back to school and my classes were mostly tortuous - a week off definitely didn’t do much for their English. Although, I did have my first one-on-ones with my BTS students- and I was both horrified and amazed. I had one student who literally had no idea what the article was about or anything that I was saying. After 10 minutes of drawing pictures and acting things out she finally said she understood and was able to say a few fitting words, but not much. However, both of my other students did phenomenal -- I had picked a really hard article, and they both did a great job interpreting it. Thursday afternoon didn’t go so well however. My old apartment belonged to the school - and I had mistakenly assumed that I could borrow the mattress that I was loaned and had moved it to my new place. Well, I got a nasty, screaming phone call from the director accusing me of all kinds of nasty things. To make things worse I had some drama with my old roommate. I promised that I would return the mattress Friday - but I didn't really have any idea how I would pull if off. Friday I was feeling a bit tense, however my classes really cheered me up. I had one of my favorite groups as well as a new group who were all very sweet. Friday afternoon / evening was a mess - but I did manage to return the mattress along with an apology letter. After all the drama I was so ready for the weekend.

Well - on Saturday Seamus, Caitlin and two of her friends who were visiting from Canada and I went to Paris! It felt so amazing to be back in the city of light. I had forgotten just how much I love that city - the buildings, the streets the feeling. I’ve always thought that Paris feels really alive - like when you walk you walk with the beat of the city - and I was so happy to discover that it still feels that way. We had such an amazing day - I was the only person to have visited Paris in the group, so I got to act as tour guide. It was such a wonderful feeling to be able to give them a great taste of Paris and witness their reactions to the beautiful city (thanks Paris summer study abroad). There were so many things that we didn’t get to do - but we did see most of the big stuff along with some of my favorite parts of the city. We started off at Notre Dame and even climbed the tower (which I had never done) and it was so cool!

I absolutely love cathedrals and the views of the city from the top are absolutely phenomenal!

It was so much fun to see all the big monuments of the city as well as the cathedral up close - the grotesques were so amazing to see up close and personal.

After we descended Notre Dame (and all felt a bit dizzy) we headed over to the Deportation Memorial - but missed seeing it by 10 seconds - it had just closed for lunch (2 minutes early) but we did get to see the outside and talk about Paris during WWII. after that we walked along the Quai for a bit - took a photo of the best view of Notre Dame - and then visited Shakespeare and Co. (which they all loved!).

After that we headed up toward the Sorbonne through the Latin Quarter, had a look at the outside of the Pantheon and searched in vain for my favorite restaurant - La Geuze. I knew I was in the right area, but we were all too hungry to keep looking on every corner. We walked through an outdoor market (so cool!) and stopped in at a Brasserie for a quick lunch. I had French Onion Soup and we all shared a pichet of the wine of the month (which was soooo good). Afterwards we hopped on the metro and headed for the Eiffel Tower. The reaction was so wonderful - Caitlin literally squealed and I was grinning from ear to ear.

Seeing the Eiffel Tower always makes you feel like you are really in Paris - so cool. After gawking for a bit (we decided not to go up because it was raining and quite windy) we headed for the Louvre. Our two guests didn’t want to go in (it wasn’t on their must see list) so we looked at the outside and the I.M. Pei pyramid and then walked through the Tuileries and up the Champs Elysées to the Arc de Triumph.

After a few photos we hopped on the Metro again and headed toward Place du Republic to find a specific store for the Canadians.

After some shopping success we popped into a Café for some coffee/tea/hot chocolate. I had a café viennoise (amazing!). We had originally planned to go to Montmartre, but we were all exhausted and had a train to catch in 2 hours. So we decided to go back the Eiffel Tower to see it twinkle (which is worth it!). On the way we walked down the Rue Cler and admired the adorable street and its shops. We waited for a few minutes and then watched the tower burst into a thousand little twinkling lights.


Such a wonderful day - and so wonderful to be back in Paris. I can’t wait to go back and see all the things that I missed - the art in the Louvre, the Orsay, the Picasso museum, the Chagal ceiling in Opéra, a reminiscing trip around the Bastille not to mention actually finding and eating at La Geuze as well as gelato at the place where it’s shaped like a rose (yogurt flavor here I come). I really wanted to shop on the Rue Cler and picnic under the Eiffel Tower as well - but there’s always next time.

Sunday was a mellow day (nothing’s open on Sunday’s - so its always a nice day to just relax and rest). Monday I went shopping for furniture (sleeping on the floor was getting really old) and had quite the adventure. I wanted to get a mattress, bed frame, bedside table and desk - as well as some pillows and an oven. After a 45 minute bus trip I found myself at Conforama - essentially the smaller version of Ikea. I had to wait for about 30 minutes for the store to reopen (ah, the French lunch break) and then spent about an hour shopping. I finally decided on what to get and went up to the little desk to make my purchase. I had originally planned to rely on delivery, however I was informed that the next delivery would be on Saturday (I simply couldn’t sleep on the floor for that long) so I protested a bit and the sales girl finally suggested that I could rent one of their trucks and drive all my stuff home for a fraction of the cost of delivery (awesome!). So I paid for all my stuff and headed to the back to rent my truck and pick up my stuff. At this point I was absolutely terrified - not only is driving in France completely different than driving in the States, I really can’t drive a standard and almost all cars here are standards. But what was I going to do? I just planned on going for it and stalling out a lot. Well, I didn’t really have to worry because they refused to rent the truck to me because I didn’t have a French driver’s license. All I could think was SHIT! So after waiting for a while, I decided to ask my a friend of mine who has a car to come to my rescue. He, being the amazingly nice guy that he is, said of course and showed up an hour and some later. However, it was really obvious that all the stuff wouldn’t fit in his car. So he started talking with the guy, and he finally said that my friend could drive the truck and that he would give it to us for free since I had received conflicting information and since I had been waiting so long. This absolutely blew my mind, because it was SO un-French, but I couldn’t have been happier. Well - what a ridiculous trip. The truck was huge - kinda like driving a semi. He and I laughed and laughed - it was just so funny to be driving this giant thing on the tiny French streets. I was really relieved that I didn’t end up having to drive the thing - I couldn’t imagine that I could have gotten it to shift or anything (he was convinced that they didn’t rent it to me because I’m so tiny - I think it was because I’m not French -- and besides, I would have totally driven that thing if given the chance). I finally arrived home with all my stuff 6 hours after leaving home - what a trip! Seamus came over and helped me to build stuff - but we didn’t have the right tools, so we couldn’t really do anything. At least I had a mattress though. That night I was talking to my friend Caitlin and discovered that I had received a box from my aunts and grandma! So nice! They sent me a nice little halloween box full of my favorite candies - taffy, jelly belly’s, dots and M&Ms! And a beautiful handmade scarf! Also a little bag full of treats for Razzy - which he loves. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him so excited about breakfast - this morning he almost killed me when he tripped me so he could get to his dish.

Yesterday was my first day of the week (I never have class Monday) and I had a great day. My kids were in such a good mood and really on the ball. I had students create advertisements for specific prompts that I gave them - and some of them were phenomenal (one was particularly awful - a group drew a naked lady to sell a laptop -- they were supposed to create an ad for a desktop, and, you know, keep it classroom appropriate). I had one group that was so funny, that I actually laughed til I cried - as did some of the students. For my afternoon classes I asked them to create a tall tale. I told them the story of Paul Bunyan and how he created the Grand Canyon and asked them to make up their own tall tale for a geographical feature in France. They were amazing! One group did the Eiffel Tower (which they said was originally a bridge so that the two sides of France could visit each other), one group did Mont St. Michel (which was a giant’s home) and one did the Massif Central mountains (which they said were sleeping hermit giants). It absolutely blew my mind! I have some amazing students and I just love getting to work with them! I also taught my students Eenie Meenie Miney Moe - they thought it was hillarious! One kid laughed so hard he cried - and then after I asked them to repeat it, I laughed so hard I almost cried. To hear 8 french kids saying Eenie Meenie Miney Moe over and over - it was so cute! They kept saying it over and over just grinning. I even heard one kid saying it as he walked down the hall. I also practiced some tongue twisters with them, and they really got into it. After a few in English, one student asked if he could write a french one on the board for me to try. I said, 'of course!' (you take enthusiasm whereever you find it) and the kids had a good laugh at my accent. Even though it wasn't English - I was glad that they could see that it's ok to try to speak, even if you don't sound perfect. Afterward we tried Peter Piper - but it was way too long and the bell saved them from having to try. I think I'll do some more tongue twisters, it's a really good way to work on the accent - and fun too. Last night my friends and I went out for dinner so I could thank them for all the help they've given me. After wandering around forever, we finally settled on Don Camillo - an upscale pizza place that makes very French pizzas (as in creme frache and potatoes with bacon) it was delicious and nice to have a night out with great company.

Today was a day off for us all - it’s Veteran’s Day and the whole country is on break. So Caitlin, Jennifer and Seamus came over and helped me to build all my stuff - I was really getting tired of boxes all over the floor. After 4 hours we had built a bed frame, desk and bedside table. The bed frame took the longest - and as soon as we were done we discovered that I need to buy a little metal box spring thing - because my mattress sags to the floor! I really wish I had known that when I still had the truck to get everything home... But the good news is that my apartment now looks like a real place! I have a desk and a bed and I finally was able to unpack my suitcase! Amazing!!! And! I got paid! Now I have actual euros to my name and can stop eating pasta every night!!!!

All in all, an amazing week. I absolutely love my apartment and my friends and feel completely content. This whole experience has taught me a lot about myself - it turns out I have a backbone and I’m a lot more resilient than I think. I love it here - I love that I live here - I love being a teacher and I love my new French life. I can’t imagine a better place to start my life in the ‘real world’. Oh France, je t’aime.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Oh and by the way...

I am officially freezing!

The weather here has been random, sporatic even, for the last 6 weeks (we had summer like temperatures for a few days last week). But as of today, it is officially freezing (and raining too). I always knew that the weather would be a big challenge for me - according to weather.com it'll be 89 F in Mesa today, while it was a raining 9 C in Orléans - but if I'm already cold when it's 48 F outside, how in the world will I survive?!?

Over the weekend a French man told me he felt bad for me since it'll get down to -10 C in February. Oh joy.

November 2 - some things I've learned while in France

First, let me apologize for the long delay between posts. All I can say is that it has been a week. I decided a while ago that my current apartment, while nice and spacious, simply wasn't cutting the mustard. It was just way too far away and seriously imparing my connection to the city and my friends (buses in Orléans stop running at 8:30). So for the past week or so I've been engaged in a fun little game called "Find an apartment in a foreign country". Turns out, the game isn't as fun as I'd hoped. I found an amazing place, filled out all the forms and then waited for over a week while the agency gave me conflicting answers (there were a few days where I was told yes in the morning, and then in the afternoon told probably not). Finally, after a few tears (or a lot) I decided to abandon my dreams of floor to ceiling windows and start looking again. 7 phone calls later I had an appointment. And, to make a long story short - I've found a place! I haven't signed the lease yet, but I have paid my deposit and have an appointment tomorrow morning to finalize all the paperwork! I'm trying to not get too excited - I've learned my lesson about that - but I think I'm golden.

So, in light of my past week, I thought I would write a few things that I've learned about France and life in general.

1st: don't put all your eggs in one basket (as in, even if someone says yes, don't stop looking for new places)
2nd: don't count your chickens before they hatch (as in, a yes is not a yes until the keys are in your hand)
3rd: you may win more flies with honey than with shit, but in France you're better off giving them shit (as in, don't be so nice all the damn time and learn how to assert yourself)
4th: be patient, but persistent (waiting around is nice and all, but you're aren't going to get anywhere unless you bother the hell out of people)
5th: being foreign is fun until someone calls you a foreigner (seriously, it's a bit painful - we're people too!)
6th: having an amazing group of friends is all you need in life (Caitlin, here's looking at you for helping me SO much, Seamus for the long distance support and all you amazing assistants for listening and offering kind words - I am the luckiest person!)
7th: phone calls home at 2 am are always welcome (especially when you have amazing parents!)
8th: When life hand you lemons, it's best to turn them into lemonade (lemonade tastes way sweeter when you've been stuck with lemons for a while)

And that's all for now! Everyone keep your fingers crossed that the lease signing goes well, if it does I'm off to Paris for the day on Wednesday and then back to work Thursday. Ah, France.

October 23 - It’s Friday and I’m in love

...with the two boxes full of American goodies that I just got! You have never seen someone so happy to get a can of black beans and green chilies! Yesterday, I received a little note in my boite de lettres that I had received two boxes - except to retrieve them I would have to go to some obscure post office branch nowhere near me (which is very unusual, because the last time I wasn’t home to sign for something they left it at the nearest post office - there are some mysteries about this country that I will never understand). OR I could just wait until tomorrow between 8 am and 1 pm for the postman to show up - which, obviously, was the better option. So after I finished my only class of the day at 9:15 am (the scheduling gods thought it was a great idea to give me only 1 class on Fridays at the lovely time of 8:15am) I went running out of the building, caught the next bus and sat patiently in my apartment for the next two hours. There was no way that I was going to miss these boxes! Well, at 11:30 the interphone (aka intercom) rings and I go running down the stairs, passport in hand, to meet the mailman. I was so excited that I actually almost knocked him over and forgot every word I’ve ever known in French, including bonjour. Packages signed for, I went running back up the stairs and started sawing them open.

Up first - a box from Troy containing hot sauce, adobo peppers in chipotle sauce, jalapenos, chili powder and several cans of green chilies. I was literally so happy to see green chilies that I hugged the can. You can take the girl out of the southwest, but you can NEVER take the southwest out of the girl. Best birthday gift ever!

Up next - a box from my parents. I’ve yet to feel homesick, but I did try to smell the inside of the box to see if it smelled like home -- it smelled like cardboard (damn). Contents - nearly all the food items I miss from home (you just can’t ship one of my dad’s roast chickens or my mom’s spaghetti sauce or a batch of homemade enchiladas). I now have real spices and bouillon cubes and more chilies AND Trader Joes mac and cheese (gluten free style!), not to mention a can of TJs organic black beans! The minute I saw that purple label I literally jumped for joy - this can also got a great big hug. I also got one of my favorite treats - a tin of kippered herring (but no dad to split the can with). I also got a handful of halloween goodies including a really cool new shirt and some stickers! New pajama pants (which are so cute!), some new family portraits some great books to show my kids and a taco making kit! I cannot wait to have a little dinner party with my taco kit. Razu also got 4 new toys - which he has been chasing around the house since!

During the whole experience of opening these boxes I was actually crying tears of joy while laughing, jumping up and down and hugging objects - it must have been quite the scene.

Its so funny, because I really haven’t felt homesick - I really miss my favorite people, but I’ve yet to miss the ‘place’ of home. I think it helps that I have a set schedule and a place to call home that’s not a hotel. I have moments where I really start to miss things like palm trees and orange sunsets and walking outside to see sunshine and feel warm air -- but for the most part these moments are few and far between. But getting these boxes with things from MY home - it brought tears to my eyes. I think that, more than the items themselves, its knowing that I have people who are thinking of me and remembering all the little things that bring me joy at home. Its that feeling of love that is so overwhelming - and being able to hold these same items that were carefully chosen and held by the people I love, well, its just like getting to see them in person and giving them a great big hug.

In other very exciting news - I have a French social security number which means that I’m now officially enrolled in French health insurance! Yay!

Also, in even more good news I’m officially on vacation until November 4 (or 3 or 5 - I’ll definitely find out before the day creeps up on me). I’m actually really looking forward to this little break. I know that I’ve only been working for a month, but my brain already feels pretty mushy. This whole experience is quite the learning curve - on top of adapting to a new culture and filling in endless forms, I’m learning a new job IN a new culture. I’ve never received training to be a teacher, and am therefore only imitating the great teachers I’ve had the past. Thus, there are lots of moments of confusion, not only because I’m a new teacher, but also because the French school system is SO different than the US’s. For example: if you want to discipline a kid in class who’s chatting too much do you say (a) please stop talking or (b) shut up. In the US you would pick option a - in France you would pick option b. I have yet to tell a student to shut up, nor do I ever want to, but when you say the polite American things they don’t take you seriously! I’ve had to resort to the idea of calling students out almost to the point of embarrassment to get their attention - and even then it doesn’t always work! Amazing! Also, I don’t think French students get to play a lot of games in class - I can’t tell you the level of confusion I’ve caused when I’ve asked them to pair up or get in teams. Apparently students don’t move around in the classroom. If you ask them to get in teams, they just stay where they are! I never thought that I would have to explain the concept of working in teams - but I’ve done so twice now. I play a game with my students where I put them into 2 teams and let each team choose a picture. I then draw two boxes on the white board and ask them to describe the picture to me while I try to draw it - I give each team 3 minutes. I award points based on which drawing turns out better, plus points for strong details and good vocab words or phrases. However, I subtract points for each student on the team who doesn’t speak. I thought that this was pretty straight forward, however yesterday when I was totaling up the points I asked if every student had said at least one sentence. It turns out that one student didn’t speak, so the team lost 1 point. Then (and this blew my mind) a student on that teams says, “but madame, it isn’t fair to lose a point. He has really bad english and this is not our fault.” I probably looked stunned. I simply couldn’t imagine calling out a fellow student like that, just in the name of winning! The most amazing part was that the student with the supposedly bad english didn’t seem to care - and lest you think he didn’t understand, think again - someone translated the phrase for him into French -- and he still didn’t care! Wow! Then we had a little chat on team work and why it’s important to help others... hopefully they understood me (literally, they understand me for the most part, but I can’t imagine that I was speaking as slowly as I should have due to my surprise at the situation) ...

And... I think that’s all. Quite the rambling post, but quite the exciting day!